Quick question: When was the last time you stopped and acknowledged your achievements?
Was it today? If so, congratulations! You are among a minority.
Now is the time to stop and acknowledge your successes, no matter how big or small. Stop thinking that you have to keep on ticking boxes in your to-do list.
This is not about being egotistical or ‘big headed’. It’s about taking the time to appreciate all that you do. It is also a time to learn from not only your achievements but also mistakes. Ask yourself what you can do differently next time.
Here are three ways to start acknowledging yourself.
1. Blue-sky time.
When I work with some of our top leaders, I often speak to them about the concept of blue-sky time. This is when you take time out each day (yep, each day) away from phones, blackberries and emails. It’s the time when you think about your day and acknowledge what is going well for you, the successes you have had, and what you need to do differently.
2. Celebration book.
Do you get great feedback from clients? Do you get great feedback from family and friends? Why not start your own ‘Celebration Book’ and surround yourself with reminders of your success. Grab a journal and jot down thoughts about what you are doing well. Add the fabulous testimonials you get from clients. Get your immediate family to write notes in it. Add the things that remind you to celebrate YOU.
3. Work with a mentor or coach.
Why? Because in most cases, this person will ask to hear about your successes and wins and then encourage or force you to take the time to celebrate what you have achieved, no matter how big or small those achievements are. This is the one person who is focused solely on you, your success and your greatness, and will hold this vision for you.
Appreciating and celebrating yourself is a gift. Watch what happens when you use it. Your life and your business will expand, because this gift is infectious!
About the Author
Deb Pilgrim works with clients in a step by step system that allows them to create solid business goals and attract more clients. Sign up for Deb’s FREE e-newsletter by visiting http://www.debpilgrim.com and receive her FREE e-book on how to identify your ideal clients.